What happened to the days where guys used to be gentlemen? Where they would be courteous, generous, noble, and have honor - especially towards women. Where have all the good men gone?
In this generation it seems that guys (not men) are only interested in hooking up, sex, and being a 'bro'. What's with that? Even the guys who actually want a girl friend act in the most annoying ways to live up to this 'bro' image - really? quit it. Thanks to the famous Barney from the TV show How I Met Your Mother, guys today idolize that life style and image; oh by the way, your hero Barney is gay in real life (I love Neil Patrick Harris). The 'Bro Code' - a series of articles and rules that will classify you as a bro - is absolutely ridiculous, but many many boys that I know follow every single word. Please, oh please, grow up - that book was made to get money, you're not really suppose to live up to it. If you are a 'bro', I classify you as a dick, tool and douche-bag. No matter how nice of a guy you really are, the fact that you think these words are going to help your life is sad and I pity you.
No, I don't want to know how you pick up girls. No, I don't want to know what you did with that girl over there. No, I don't want to know how many girls you've fucked. No, No, NO. Stop thinking that I actually care about your past love life (or sex life I should say) and can you just focus on a conversation that we both can have?
I've always hated being the only girl in a mass group of guys, well the guys I know. Seriously the conversation they have - I picked up this girl using this line....I love girls with daddy issues....Look what this click said to me online (all true stories I kid you not). I often think to myself who are these silly girls who seem completely and outrageously desperate. That's just horrible that they depend and are interested in such losers. Then I think, why am I friends with such indecent guys? How the hell did they get this way?
In this generation it seems that guys (not men) are only interested in hooking up, sex, and being a 'bro'. What's with that? Even the guys who actually want a girl friend act in the most annoying ways to live up to this 'bro' image - really? quit it. Thanks to the famous Barney from the TV show How I Met Your Mother, guys today idolize that life style and image; oh by the way, your hero Barney is gay in real life (I love Neil Patrick Harris). The 'Bro Code' - a series of articles and rules that will classify you as a bro - is absolutely ridiculous, but many many boys that I know follow every single word. Please, oh please, grow up - that book was made to get money, you're not really suppose to live up to it. If you are a 'bro', I classify you as a dick, tool and douche-bag. No matter how nice of a guy you really are, the fact that you think these words are going to help your life is sad and I pity you.No, I don't want to know how you pick up girls. No, I don't want to know what you did with that girl over there. No, I don't want to know how many girls you've fucked. No, No, NO. Stop thinking that I actually care about your past love life (or sex life I should say) and can you just focus on a conversation that we both can have?
I've always hated being the only girl in a mass group of guys, well the guys I know. Seriously the conversation they have - I picked up this girl using this line....I love girls with daddy issues....Look what this click said to me online (all true stories I kid you not). I often think to myself who are these silly girls who seem completely and outrageously desperate. That's just horrible that they depend and are interested in such losers. Then I think, why am I friends with such indecent guys? How the hell did they get this way?
From the movie Easy A - Emma Stone
I just want to know, cause I know they're out there, where are the decent men? Not only guys who want to be in a relationship, but men who actually respect women and don't take advantage of their situation. Who will actually have civilized conversations with us and might even care for us as friends and/or lovers. I really don't want the guys in our generation to be known as 'bros' and 'tools' - that's just sad. I hope they understand that the women who have self-esteem and self-respect will not tolerate how much of a bro there are and see them for who they truly are - shallow, arrogant fuck-heads.
Sorry for the rant, I just needed to say it. What do you have to say?
Love,
ALPHA
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