Touch-a Touch-a Touch Me

Scene from The Rocky Horror Picture Show

A little awkward I admit to talk about this to like the world, but let's face it, it feels damn good. Getting fingered by a guy is hot and, like I said, it feels amazing. I'm sure many girls are like Janet here from The Rocky Horror Picture Show (Haven't seen it? It's such an experience that you should watch it no matter what people say). Well, she was a conservative girl, very traditional - so obviously a virgin. But, after her first sexual experience she cries aloud to the next man she finds - "Touch-A Touch-A Touch Me! I want to be dirty!" So from that we can tell that whatever she just did sexual she loved it and shes hunting for more!

I swear that's the same sensation you feel when you get fingered for the first time (or maybe not the first time, more like the first time it's done right). It'll drive you insane if it great - so much that you can orgasm! Wild!

What Does It Mean To Get Fingered?

Okay, the simplest way I can explain this to you if from a male perspective of how to finger a girl. So, here we go. When you're making out and things are getting really steamy and making out is just not cutting out for you anymore - you take the next step. Whether its you doing something for him or he doing something for you. Well, whenever it's your turn here's how it usually starts. While making out, he'll probably begin to unbutton your jeans or slide his hand up your skirt. Then he'll sneak his hand underneath your underwear. He shouldn't put his fingers in just yet - he wants to make it amazing for you right? The first step will be to massage and caress the outer part with his palm. 

If you're not wet already, he might turn to lube and apply some on his fingertips. Really good guys know how to tease the girl, they might just trace the outer part of your vagina. Then, he begins to make his entrance. Of course he has to stop by and say hello to your clitoris. He should gently rub your clitoris and then smoothly to your opening.  He'll start slowly at first and then gradually move his fingers up, down, side to side. You know he's not in your vagina yet right? That's just the preview. 

Joke! (I hope)

That first time he gets in there - it feels sensational. It should be slow and gentle - gah, that feeling that something is in there is just mind-blowing. He'll put his finger in you as far as it can go. If he is well experienced he should be able to find you G-Spot and work that thing. He'll probably try some circular motion that's smooth and regular. Or, he might simulate intercourse and repeatedly move his finger in and out of your vagina. (If he's good, his thumb will be massaging you clitoris!) There will probably be some kind of rhythm and coordination that he has going on.

You might reach a high point - you know if he's good or if you're feeling good - and he'll know because of your reactions verbally and physically. Your breathing will change and your vagina muscles will flex against his hand movements. You might be on your way to an orgasm! To help you, he should keep fingering you but agaisnt your thrust movements (you know like your humping!) You both should maintain that rhythm - it totally helps!! So even if your moaning and groaning - don't stop if you want that orgasm! 

There are different positions that you can be fingered - standing up, sitting, laying down, basically anything as long as he can get his fingers in you. Also, he can try many different techniques - multiple fingers, maybe a fist (I don't know), variety is key remember? Just like you giving him a handy ;) Don't be afraid to tell him what feels good and what you want!

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The First Time.

For some girls, if it's your first time for anything down there. Getting fingered for the first time might hurt (and it might bleed) - it really depends on how tight you are. It didn't hurt for me nor did I bleed - but seriously it depends on your body. If you tell him its your first time I'm sure he'll be gentle and try to make it good for you. 

Do Girls Like Being Fingered?
Read some of these posts on Female First!
Basically, fingering is a pretty popular experience for most of these women.
Hot stories right?
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Just like a guy masturbates by giving himself a hand job, you too can masturbate by fingering yourself. It may be weird, but only you truly know what you really like. Also, if you do it first you'll know if you like it or not. So maybe touch yourself first and then let him? 

**Don't do anything if you feel it's what you have to do, or because your friends are doing it, or if the guy is making you do it. You have the right to do sexual things at your own pace. If your guy is pressuring you, there's something wrong with that. Remember it's about you too!**

Have fun ;)

Love,

ALPHA