Oral Sex For Her

Okay, oral sex for women is commonly known as getting 'eaten out' which is really an awkward and weird name if you ask me. The actual term is called cunnilingus but who even knows that? Most people just refer to it as 'going down on a girl' or 'eating a girl out' - I definitely prefer the former. From what it sounds like, yeah it does sound pretty gross and, well, I guess when you further explain it...it gets uncomfortable and more disgusting. But I will tell you and I'm sure many experience women will agree that is it such an exhilarating experience - yes, it feels tremendously good.

What Goes On...Down There

Let's paint a scene shall we. Making out. It's getting hot and heavy. Your legs are wrapped around him, his hands on your back slowly moving towards your ass. He starts kissing your neck and then down to your chest, smoothly to your stomach and unbuttons your jeans. He slides them off, all the while still kissing there. Reaches your underwear and takes them off too. He begins to massage your vagina, he may even tease you with his fingers. Then it begins...

If the make out session turned you on, you're most likely pretty wet or moist down there. Apparently, when guys are first learning how to eat a girl out they actually write the alphabet with their tongues - didn't know that myself. Okay, you know he good if it feels good. And he knows if it feels good if you're moaning and groaning - saying actually words may indicate that you're really, really into it. If he's more experienced he'll try to find your G-Spot and from there keep a steady rhythm. He might even try a combination of massaging your clitoris and eating you out. Personally, I love it when a guy fingers me and eats me out at the same time - the combined sensation just drive me crazy - it feels so good!! When you're vagina tightens up and then relaxes - that's actually his cue that he just made you cum. (Good for him!).

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How to Make it Better

Okay, so you know you already like it (and you totally should). According to Cosmopolitan 62% of readers say they wish their guys treated them to it more often. I mean a lot of guys say that going down on a girl is one of their favorite things to do on a girl, but what if it's not the best? Here's how to improve that!

Tactic 1. Speak Up Woman!

Totally tell your guy what you want. Like I've said its a turn on for a guy if you tell him what you like. If he's a little worried or not confident add something that includes hims like, "I love it when you go down on me" (emphasis on you). Stuff like that, make him feel proud. 

Tactic 2. Groom Girl Parts

Guys are pretty visual, so he might not be into the whole hair thingy. Making a clean area down there will allow him to stay there longer pleasuring you all the while. The sexy sight should make him want to explore orally says Daniel Amen, MD, author of Sex on the Brain.

Tactic 3. Competition Anyone?

Men like competition, so why not induce a little contest? Say something like "I bet you can't make me climax using just your mouth" - oh, he'll probably respond, "Challenge accepted" and boom, a ticket to pleasure town.

Tactic 4. Guide Him 

What better way to show him how its done by doing it yourself? Seeing you touching yourself is such a turn on for him and a good lesson - cause well, he might not know what to do....

Tactic 5, Shower Him with Vocals

Being specific about what he does that makes you squirm tells him how amazing he is - which will be a huge ego boost. So moan, groan, scream whatever - the more positive reinforcement your guys receives will tell him how and where to treat you over and over again.

Tactic 6. Make it Easy For Him

Try positions that are guy-friendly. Cosmopolitan suggests that you should use two pillows, one under his chest and one under your hips. This way, his chin won't dig into the mattress, and with your pelvis raised higher off the bed, he'll have a greater range of motion. 

Tactic 7. If He Holds Back

If he doesn't do you, why should you do him? Or, if he's really not comfortable down there...you might just have to accept it. If it really bothers you that he can't pleasure you in this way, the best thing to do is probably let him go and start dating other men who are probably vagina crazy. 

Information from Cosmopolitan. 

So yeah...that's what oral sex for a woman is basically about. If you're not comfortable with it, you shouldn't let anybody (girls or boys) pressure you into doing it. You're in control of your body. Remember that. 

Well then, Happy Humping. 

Love, 

ALPHA