Blow His Mind

Blow jobs...almost every guy loves it...girls either hate it, are okay with it, or even love it too. You all better appreciate the research I put into this particular post - there are some things that I came across that were very nasty - oh how I want to cry now. Okay, so after all of this knowledge, I will enlighten you with what you should know and how to achieve some killer head.

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Where to start right? Well obviously you should get your guy in the mood. That's right - it's time to make out. Okay so you go through your usually make out steps - you kiss, you kiss with tongue, it's heavy making out now, you're hands are touching and exploring each others bodies (people overlook this part but its so sensual and compassionate if you really think about it), you both might get a little handy if you know what I mean, a little dry humping never hurt and then there's that point where either he'll go down or you will. Personally, I don't think it matters who goes down first cause, well, it's courtesy to return the pleasure - so if he goes down on you, you should go down on him and vice versa, it really is just manners. (And most of the time, if you get the other off they are more then willing to make you feel great too - oh the memories).

So, you're about to give him head. The best is always to tease. This means slowly make your way down to his package. Beginning at his lips, gently move to his neck (maybe fondle his ear - it is a instant pleasure spot), from his neck if his clothes are still on oh why don't you take it off. So, shirt off right? Begin kissing his chest all the way down until you're stopped with his pants. Well that's just going to get in the way isn't it! Slowly and gently take them off - oh how he's dying for you to start already. What would be cute too is if you looked at him and give a soft cute smile and then undo his pants and pull them down enough (or completely off) and then your at last one layer away from the prize.

Now, you can either go slow or fast - each sexy in its own way. (What apparently is super sexy is if you take it off with your teeth - weird right?) Well, get the damn underwear off woman! And there it is, it should be happy to see how close you are to it. It's so important to look excited and happy when you see it or be excited about what you're about to do. Enthusiasm, believe it or not, makes the whole process hotter and more pleasure for a guy. Don't hesitate to say "Oh my...you're so big and hard" or cheap things like that. Oh, wow big he'll feel now - talking about his pride not really his dick. Now that you're there and it's waiting...you kind of have to start the actual blow job.

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The medical term for blow job is fellatio - I thought that was funny...okay, time to get down to business - ha, I crack myself up. In a blow job you don't only stick it in your mouth and move back and forth. There is actually a certain art to it which includes not only your mouth, but your lips and tongue - and maybe even your hands. Why do guys love oral sex so much? Think about it...a warm wet place to stick his dick in...oh yeah, your mouth is like a vagina - but better, it has extra features. So, take his penis into your mouth and oh dear lord avoid grazing his dick with your teeth - it really is super sensitive and you could really hurt your guy's member. Basically, you're going to simulate what happens in sex - up and down movements - with the addition of some sucking. 

Just like you want some excitement when he's down there for you, you need to spice things up for him too. So vary your rhythm, speed and intensity. Also change what your doing - lick, kiss, suck - alternate! It's actually like playing with the penis with your mouth - oh yeah I just went there. To make sure you're getting your guy off listen and watch his reactions. Another hot thing to do is moan yourself and look up at smile at him - make it look like your having a good time. 

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Tip #1 - To make him weak in the knees, linger in the more sensitive areas (the tip, head, testicles, and perineum - between testicles and anus) He'll love it when you appreciate his shaft as well, try getting that bottom spot where his penis is close to his body - this is what you call 'deep throat'

Tip #2 - Get your hands involved Lady! Sometimes dicks can be a mouthful (HA!), so why not use a combination of your mouth and hands? This is a good time to get his other areas involved (like his balls!) Trick - make an O with your hand and place it on your lips and move in tandem. This will create the illiusion that you're taking him all in - when in reality it's more like three-fifths hehe. 

Tips #3 - Like I said, it's not always about the penis. Try GENTLY sucking his testicles or massaging them with your hands. Kiss his inner thighs which are also very sensitive and then explore and see what he likes. Lick his super sensitive perineum if you're okay with it!

Tip #4 - Oh, play with temperature hehe. So try different things like drinking something hot and then blowing your guy. Or the opposite, suck on an ice cube and then suck your guy. He'll totally cringe and go crazy

Tip #5 - Looking for kinky? Add some different flavors into the job. It helps for women who can't stand the taste of penis. Use chocolate, whipped cream, ice cream...oh anything sweet :) 

Tip #6 - Yeah, not going to lie...you're probably going to gag. It's natural so no need to be embarrassed. In fact it might be an ego boost for him knowing his dick was so big it made you gag. If your gagging too much then try using your hands more. 

Tip #7 - Maintain a little eye contact. He'll love what you're doing down there, but he will probably get a little lonely too. So, every now and then glance up and hold his gaze - add a devilish sultry gleam in your eye. He'll be looking at the devil but will be in heaven! 

Tip #8 - Even wonder why it's called a blow job when you're actually sucking? The 'suction' is created by placing the back of your tongue on the roof of your mouth then sliding it backward to create a vacuum. And easy way to know why kind of suck your guy likes is either asking him to suck your fingers or sucking his fingers and asks if he wants that somewhere else. 

Tip #9 - Oh the cleverness of the tongue. It can do so much to pleasure you guy. You can tantalize the dick, you can stroke it, lick it, you it like a paint brush...anything basically. But have you ever considered using the back of your tongue? It's softer and more silky and it will definitely feel good to him on some softer, sensitive areas. Here's what to do: holding the base of his penis and resting your chin on the underside of his shaft for stability, place the underside of your tongue on this sweet spot called the frenulum (below the head in the center of the underside of the coronal ridge) and quickly swipe it from side to side. 

So...you did it...you mastered the blow job. And you know this how? Oh yeah, he's about to ejaculate. What to do, what to do. Sometimes, the guy will tell you and then you can get away fast enough for it not to get in your mouth. Other times...well....you have options. You can swallow or not swallow. Don't force yourself to swallow - it might offend the guy but common you did the guy a service. Just spit it out in a tissue or sink, whichever is closer. But I guess if you don't have time or if you don't mind you can swallow. Not much I can say there. Some guys like to come in different places...like breasts...bellies...yeah....Please make sure you've talked about it first. 

Okay, if you're a swallow or if it gets in your mouth, believe it or not you can fix your guys spunky junk. Some food and drinks actually do effect the taste (apparently vegetarians have the best semen). Try telling your guy to eat a lot of fruit that are high in natural sugars, parsley, wheat-grass, celery, cinnamon, cardamom, peppermint and lemon. 

**Even though its not vaginal sex, you can get an STD, and worse it'll be around your mouth!! Also, don't let anybody pressure you into doing something you're not comfortable with. Be strong and know what you want to do!**

Information from Oral Sex Tips, for more techniques check out Blow Him Away In Bed, The Art of BlowJob  (Warning: the pictures are explicit!), Cherry TV provide a good "How To" Video (don't worry there's no real penis),  Okay...no joke I used this site when I first began to explore blow jobs - it's really helpful! Click Here, and finally there's Cosmopolitan! 

Well..Have fun sucker ;)
Love,
ALPHA