Sunday, October 30, 2011

Saturday, October 29, 2011

Celebrity Bromances

Justin Timberlake and Andy Samberg

Rob Schneider and Adam Sandler

Lance Armstrong and Matthew McConaughey

Chace Crawford and Ed Westwick

Tobey Maguire and Lenoardo Dicaprio 

Ben Affleck and Matt Damon

George Clooney and Brad Pitt

Tom Cruise and Will Smith

Vince Vaughn and Jon Favreau

Jonah Hill and Seth Rogen

John Stamos and Bob Saget

Donald Faison and Zach Braff

John Reilly and Will Ferrell

Jay-Z and Kanye West

Pete Wentz and John Mayer
Love,
ALPHA

Question...

Q. I always feel like I have to pee when sex gets really intense, and it distracts me from enjoying the moment. Is that normal? 


A. Yes. That sensation, even though it's kind of annoying, means that your man is hitting your G-Spot...and that you're on the brink to one hell of an orgasm. You'll feel that initial urge to pee for only the first 10 seconds or so (it subsides once the G-Spot is fully swollen). And although you won't actually urinate, it may help ease your mind if you go to the bathroom before having sex - just so that you know for sure it's not a possibility.

If you still find those first few seconds to be uncomfortable, try distracting yourself. Put your guy's hand on another sensitive part of your body, like your breasts, so you can concentrate on those feel good sensations. Or try playing with your clitoris - not only will that help take your mind off of things, it will also up your odds that you experience the ultrapowerful (and pleasurable) blended orgasm -  which is when you climax from both your G-Spot and your C-Spot.

October 2011 - Cosmopolitan.
Love,
ALPHA

Friday, October 28, 2011

The Break Up Ripple Effect

Breaking up with someone sucks. Well, I guess unless you want it to suck. There is often a downward spiral when you separate with someone. Cosmo states there are three main areas that hit you hard.

1) Health: You're more prone to gain weight after ditching a man, probably because you reach for foods as comfort. Instead, head to the gym! Work off your pain, anger or sadness. Exercise releases happiness inducing endorphines which put you in a good mood.

2) Appearance: Many people often change their look after a breakup. Not necessarily a good idea, since you're also likely to make bad decisions. So, stay clear of that salon for now or really, really make sure you know what you're doing!!

3) Safety: This is when you're most susceptible to agreeing to that fifth tequila shot or going home with that loner with a face tattoo...Go out with friends so they can keep you in check!! (For realio).

October 2011 - Cosmopolitan
Love,
ALPHA

Thursday, October 27, 2011

Oreo and Peanut Butter Brownie

Oh my goodness, oh my goodness!! Thanks to the site "Instructables" I now have the ability to create these magnificent brownies. Just look how delicious they look!!! I'm freaking out over a brownie - yes.

Basically, you follow the recipe on the brownie box you are using. You need to use cup-cake pans. So before you pour in your brownie mix you first need to make the tower of oreos and peanut butter. It's simple and exactly how it sounds. Have an oreo, spread peanut butter, add another oreo and another swipe of peanut butter. Simple right?

Then place the tower in the middle of the cup-cake pan. Don't forget the liners! Then gently pour the brownie mix over the tower; you don't need too much now, it's already sweet enough!

GAH~! I can't wait to go home and make these for my family!  To see the how-to pictures, click here.

Love,
ALPHA

Movies: The Rum Diary

Firstly, I must say that I adore my school. This movie doesn't come out until Friday and yet I got to watch it FOR FREE on TUESDAY. Gah, you spoil me. Okay, so the movie! 



American journalist Paul Kemp (Johnny Depp) takes on a freelance job in Puerto Rico for a local newspaper during the 1950s. And let me tell you the scenery and landscape is so beautiful! It really makes you miss those summer days. Anyways, Depp's character struggles to find a balance between island culture and the expatriates who live there. At this time, Puerto Rico belong to America and thus the wealthy are Americans and they exploit the island and the people. Depp exposes himself to both worlds and decides that he wants to reveal the actual lifestyles of the Puerto Ricans. But can he achieve this with all the booze around him??


Simply, it's basically Johnny Depp getting drunk and high and then occasionally being a journalist. It really is hilarious - you will laugh, you will, you will, you will! 


And oh, Johnny Depp still has it. That dreamy and charismatic look and talk. Oh Johnny!! But the beauty of the screen goes to Amber Heard (right). The former Bunny from The Playboy Club, stuns audiences with her gorgeous face and sex appeal. This era definitely works for her. I hope we get to see her in more challenging roles :)

Love,
ALPHA

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

San Diego: The Sun God Festival

The Sun God Festival is an annual music festival that UC San Diego hosts, which takes place towards the end of our Spring quarter. The booths and performances all take place on the RIMAC Field. This festival is for current UCSD students, faculty, as well as for non-UCSD students! One benefit that we undergraduate UCSD students have that it is FREE. That's right, it's free! Yet for everyone else it must be purchased. The Sun God Festival is named after the famous landmark on campus. Past notable performers include Wiz Khalifa, Michael Posner, Black Eyed Peas, Drake, B.o.B., Cake, Mos Def, De La Soul, and 311.








For the past few years, the wristbands and tickets have all been SOLD OUT due to popularity. If you are down in California, the Sun God Festival at UCSD is the place to be!  








What To Wear:

This is a super simple and comfortable outfit. With a simple white tank and skinny jeans, you are free to accessorize in practically any way that you want. I chose the scarf for a pop of color, and since it's California, you might get cold under the shade. Yet at the same time, since the festival will be in May, it might be hot as well. Then I chose the yellow OPI nail polish to give more color to the look. You can also add on other accessories to make the look more you.

Sources:
Tank top - Forever 21; Jeans - Topshop; Flip flops - Abercrombie & Fitch; Scarf - Urban Outfitters; Nail polish - OPI "Need Sunglasses?"







This is the type of look that I personally would go for. Pairing a slouchy tee with denim shorts and loafers (moccasins). I added the earrings because it went with the vibe of the look, and the color of the nail polish was just irresistible.

Sources:
Top, Earrings - Urban Outfitters; Shorts - Topshop; Loafers - Minnetonka; Nail polish - OPI "Swimsuit... Nailed It!"





Love,
ALPHA

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Always Look Pretty In Pictures


Tired of getting caught looking less than fabulous in photos? Shelley GoodStein, author of Face This: Real Advice From Real Models, Photographers and Makeup Artists On How to Become Picture Perfect, believes there’s a science to making the camera your BFF. Here, she shares her top tips for scoring your best profile shot ever. So go out there and smile! 

Bat Those Lashes
The focal point of a profile picture is always the eyes–so make ‘em pop. For a natural look, you can’t go wrong with cream or taupe eyeshadow. For more fun, try sheer washes of color with a soft sheen, which will add light to your peepers. Don’t forget liner for definition, curled lashes and mascara!
Instantly Whiten Teeth
Nothing lights up a photo like a pearly white smile. For a quick brightening, use this model trick: after brushing, rinse your tooth brush, dip it into hydrogen peroxide for 30 seconds, and then brush again. Hydrogen peroxide not only lightens teeth, it kills germs and heals canker sores.
Show Off Luscious Lips
A contrast of  lipcolor looks great in photos, so don’t be afraid to experiment. Lipgloss looks best as a highlighter dotted down the middle of your lower lip and outlining the cupid’s bow. Unless it’s Halloween, steer clear of glitter in photos, which can add an unnatural glare to your face.
Go For a Solid Color
When it comes to clothing, patterns and prints can confuse the viewer’s eye, and stripes can make you look wide (Yikes!). Try a vibrant shade like red, purple or blue to enliven your eyes and convey confidence, or rely on basic black for a sleek, elongated look.
Embrace Lightweight Fabrics
Wondering why the camera adds 10 pounds? It’s likely the fabric you’re wearing. Stay away from bulk-adding sequins, corduroy, terry cloth, flannel, taffeta, velvet and angora sweaters. Say yes to lighter, matte materials made with cotton, silk or lycra.
Legs For Days
Work those stems! Heels help define your calves and give your hips a little exaggerated curve, while nude shoes that match your skin tone will make your legs look longer. If you have a cute pedi, don’t be afraid to kick off your shoes and go barefoot–it makes you look approachable.
Make it About You
The background shouldn’t overpower you; go for simple and clutter free. Make sure that objects behind you don’t look like they’re growing out of you. A stone wall, leafy green nature and interesting spaces, like under a doorway or to the side of a window, all set the stage for you to dazzle.
From Makeup.com

Love,
ALPHA

Monday, October 24, 2011

Versace for H&M


Versace has come to H&M. By looking at this you're probably thinking...what the fuck is going on? What is she wearing. Oh and trust me there are pieces in the collection where I look at them and are thinking were you on crack. (Whatever, to each their own) But then there are pieces where I'm like I need to have that! So here are a few pieces that kind of some up their collection.

To view the whole Lookbook, click here


Okay, these were some of the pieces where I thought...what is going on. I like the whole bright colors but the weird Hawaiian floral print with the animal patterns was a bit too much for me. Reminds me of like Miami in the 80s. Like chill. 

These are pieces which I thought were pretty - not so much in love with them that I would want to by them in an instance but like eventually if they were on sale I would totally consider it! All very interesting cuts and patterns. I especially like the golden dress - they also have a similar one in silver. 


Now these were the pieces that I really liked - okay okay I know they're all black and probably the same pattern and everything but its just so chic, classy and has a Greek touch. Don't you like it better too???

Love, 
ALPHA



12 Things All College Freshmen Should Know

1. Go to class regularly. Seems like common sense, right? Actually, many first-year students think they can pass the course just by reading the books. Not true. Most professors add a significant amount of new material through the lectures and class discussions. For most students, college work requires a different learning style from the one they used in high school when they just studied for tests. In college, regular attendance and preparation before each class is necessary in order to keep up with the material - and your grades! 


2. Contact your new roommate or roommates prior to arrival. Get to know them and find out what they're bringing so you don't end up with two or three of everything. Once you get to campus, take time to share habits, likes and dislikes with your roommates. Setting ground rules about lights out, visitors and study hours can avoid problems down the road. 


3. Get involved in at least one out-of-class activity. Look for the many opportunities to help professors with their research or become active in clubs or organizations. Students who have out-of-class interests make better and more long-lasting friendships, are more satisfied in their college environment and are more likely to stay in school until graduation. Many students discover their career paths through out-of-class activities.


4. Get to know your resident assistant or student counselor. These upper-class students know the ropes and can help with everything from where to find things to homesickness and roommate problems.


5. Be ready for new experiences. You will meet people who have different customs, beliefs, values and habits. Remember that learning takes place both in and out of the classroom.


6. Treat the university or college and surrounding community as you would treat your home and your family. Remember that for many people, the college community is their year-round home. Behave here as you would want others to behave in your parents' yard.


7. Get to know at least one professor well each semester. (Going to class is a big part of this one.) Eventually, you will need references from professors for summer internships, graduate school and employment. Too many students find themselves in a scramble their senior year, trying to find someone who knows them well enough to write a letter of recommendation. Professors who know you and know your interests and strengths can help you identify job opportunities.


8. Although the campus will do all it can to make college life safe and secure, you must assume some responsibility for your own well-being. Follow well-lit paths and don't walk alone at night. Report lost or stolen keys and ID cards immediately and don't let strangers into your residence hall or apartment.


9. Check out study abroad programs. An international learning experience is a valuable commodity, personally and professionally.


10. Keep in touch with the student aid office -- know what applications are required and know the deadlines. Keep families informed and know the school's academic progress requirements to retain student aid eligibility.


11. Let your parents, family and friends back home know they can stay in touch with you every day. Really though, this is to keep mom and dad from worrying too much and too keep in touch with your friends back home! It's great - try some postcards! They're cheap, you don't have to write too much, and everyone likes to receive mail!! (Well, I do) 


12. And finally, a general piece of good advice for all students: Learn to use the word "no." Learn to respect the word "no."



Go Enjoy Your First Year of College! 
Love, 
ALPHA

My Body is Falling in Love

Your bod falls in love faster than your brain does! 

Most people think of falling for someone as an emotional journey that takes time. But your body figures it out more quickly. Doctors say when you're love struck, your brain releases chemicals that make you feel gaga in one-fifth of a second. 

That's as fast as...


The Pop of a Champagne Bottle


A Strike of Lightning


A Single Blink 


October 2011 - Cosmopolitan 


Love, 
ALPHA

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Fall In Boston

I really did take this! 

Fall has come to Boston! 
Beautiful (and a bit morbid) isn't it? 
One of Boston's main attractions though are graves 
This city is filled with great Revolutionaries, Patriots, and just Historical Peoples. 

I think its wonderful. 

Love, 
ALPHA

Adam Levine To Fox News

Earlier this week, Maroon 5's lead singer Adam Levine tweeted to Fox News, "Dear Fox News, don't play our music on your evil fucking channel ever again. Thank You." It is still not clear why he had this sudden outburst nor why he thinks Fox News is evil. When his representative was reached, there was no comment. Either way I thought this was a bit random and a bit weird.

On a separate note, ALPHA and I were talking about how hot Adam Levine is the other day, so I only think it's appropriate to post the photo on the right.

Love,
ALPHA

Saturday, October 22, 2011

50 Dating Rules for Smart Girls



1. Trust your instincts & always follow your heart
2. "Marriage is a great institution, but I'm not ready for an institution" - Mae West.
3. If he’s not dating you, he’s not sleeping with you…. (see #4)
4. Unless of course you want to sleep with him.. then you do what you want! 
5. Being single is not the end of the world: it’s the most liberating time when you can do what you want, answer to no one and fall in love with yourself!
6. Sometimes sex is just sex; break it to him gently
7. We’re independent, pay our own bills, change our tires and still want to be held; vulnerability makes you strong
8. Liking a guy is no excuse to act bat shit crazy… be cool girl!!
9. Liquor & true emotion don’t mix… trust me on this one
10. Dating is meant to be fun; not a spectator sport
11. Love is only as complicated as we make it
12. Everything you need to know about him, will reveal itself
13. Girls just wanna have fun is more than a song; it’s a way of life
14. Your Prince Charming does exist; but you don’t have to be Sleeping Beauty waiting for him to rescue you
15. Respect is the minimum, disrespect is where to draw the line
16. Femininity is our gift; use it wisely
17. Sex and the City is a work of fiction, not a guide for life (But still soo entertaining!) 
18. Don’t play hard to get, Be hard to get
19. Waiting for him to make the first move? Ask him out
20. A breakup does not equal breakdown. Accept it. 
21. Avoid two things in life: cheap shoes and cheap men
22. Playing small doesn’t pay: Let. Your. Light. Shine. Girl!
23. Match.com doesn’t make you pathetic but sitting home waiting for the one will make you bitter
24. Confidence is Sexy; Independence is even Sexier
25. Maybe you’re just not that into HIM
26. Having a date doesn’t Vali-Date you
27. Being a size 0 won’t make him like you and if it does… he’s a dick!
28. A woman will have multiple great loves in her life and each one should make her a better woman
29.  No man is perfect and neither are you! Get over yourself!
30.  "A girl can wait for the right man to come along but in the meantime that still doesn’t mean she can’t have a wonderful time with all the wrong ones.” - Cher
31. Paying for dinner and opening doors aren’t reserved for men, they’re reserved for people with manners
32. Don’t make your single girlfriends out to be catty, jealous haters. 
33. Relationships are hard work; know this and fall in love anyway
34. Speaking your  mind won’t scare off the right guy, it will make him fall more
35. If you treat a first date like an interview, it will feel like one
36. You can only control one thing in a relationship: yourself
37. Be who you really ARE. 
38. Having a career, hobbies and a life are all prerequisites
39. There’s so much excitement in getting to know someone… take your time
40. A smile is the best introduction
41. Live and Learn
42. Men who write dating books for women have a special place in hell
43. Don’t settle for less than butterflies— but you already knew that!
44. If he doesn’t support your shoe habit, it’s not true love! (Jokes) 
45. Being the best you will ultimately attract the best partner for you
46. Being picky isn’t a crime, being nitpicky is
47. “Maybe some women aren’t meant to be tamed. Maybe they just need to run free til they find someone just as wild to run with them” - Sex and the City

48. Dating your self is great practice and teaches others how to love you

49. The antidote to desperation is self-confidence.

50. At the end of the day, be honest about how you feel and walk away. If he’s the one he’ll run to catch you
*****
Love,  
ALPHA